Having a child is not easy for many people. In fact, around 10% of men and women suffer from some form of infertility. Thankfully, there are many options out there for couples who find themselves in this situation and one of those options is surrogacy.
Surrogacy involves a woman carrying a child for a couple who may be struggling to get pregnant via other means. There are many misconceptions about the motivations of surrogates, such as that they only do it for the money. Here are some important things to keep in mind.
Surrogates want to help others
One of the key motivations of surrogates is to help others. The reality is that many couples struggle to have children, and this can be upsetting. Surrogates tend to be empathetic and altruistic. They are highly motivated to help people experience the joy of parenthood.
It’s not all about money
While much of the surrogacy process is formal- parties are bound by a contract and the surrogate generally receives payment- many surrogates report feeling a close bond with the prospective parents.
Furthermore, surrogates also receive a sense of self-fulfillment. This often gets lost because of the payment involved. However, being paid and simultaneously doing something virtuous is possible. A sense of fulfillment inspires many women to go on to be surrogates.
If you are considering surrogacy, then it is important to gather as much information as possible. You are entitled to security with watertight contracts and you’re also entitled to know that your child will be healthy and safe. Seek legal guidance to find out more about surrogacy law.